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5/30/2011

Death


Death
Have you ever thought about death?  What does it bring? Death is so final, so distinct,
some people are afraid of it while others just wait for its foggy embrace. I have witnessed a
lot of people as they slip away to that other place. Some welcome it , some fight it. some families cry and are
torn apart, while others cling to each other and pass on the strength. I think for the most part older people have a hold on it. They don't seem so afraid, sometimes they wait for it like an old friend. They seem content almost anxious at times about dying but not about death itself, anxious to meet those who have gone on before. I have seen it time and time again as they grasp at the air for someones hand which I can not see. As they call out to mom or a husband or even children who have go on before. Bittersweet.
I remember as my dad lay dying he would reach toward the ceiling and say come on Jesus. He did not know us but that didn't matter for he was already headed for his destination. Memories are sweeter and the pain of his dying has become fainter even though the memories of him now bring a smile instead of tears. I feel it now as the moist tears fill my eyes once again but more now form sweet thoughts than bitter pain. Sometimes death is not so scary and yes sometimes we are ready.

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17 comments:

  1. Carol BlackburnMay 30, 2011 at 7:35 PM

    Hi Angie, a particularly real subject for me as a Hospice RN. It's an everyday occurrance in my life and each one touches you differently. Beautiful post.

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  2. Martha LeverMay 31, 2011 at 5:30 PM

    Hi Angela,
    Yes, I too think about it also but I am not afraid. I know where I am going and feel secure in that .What I do feat though is the pain of death and loved ones going before me. I am sure you have see it many times. You really are a painter of beautiful things! I am a Southern girl too, from Georgia, and my drawl is still strong although I lived lived here in Jacksonville, FL for 35 years. Thanks for visiting my blog today!

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  3. Carol Schiff Daily PaintingJune 2, 2011 at 6:20 AM

    This post speaks to me as I lost a friend too soon this week. Thanks for sharing a gentler, more hopeful side of death.

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  4. Nancy B. HartleyJune 3, 2011 at 12:04 PM

    Angela, your art and writing are both brilliant!
    The sensitivity of this post touches me! Thank you for sharing your beautiful ideas.

    The s

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  5. Carol DeMumbrumJune 9, 2011 at 5:45 PM

    Angela, thanks for visiting my blog. You have such lovely paintings and words. I love when people share near death experiences, such a wonderful reminder that earth is not the end and we return to our heavenly home and family. Thanks for sharing.

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  6. OldLady Of The HillsJune 11, 2011 at 2:59 AM

    We are never ready to lose someone though they may be ready to go. When it is a reality, it is still terribly painful for those of us left behind.

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  7. Crystal CookJune 14, 2011 at 11:22 AM

    Beautiful post and a powerful painting. Well done. :)

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  8. Rama AnanthJune 19, 2011 at 9:28 PM

    Beautifully written, and your painting too is very good. How did you come by my blog?
    Thanks a lot for dropping by.
    Your profile seems to be very interesting. Have a great week ahead, Rama.

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  9. maddyroseJune 19, 2011 at 10:14 PM

    Hi Angela, I came to see what your site was like and you roped me right in with the lovely painting and words. Thank you for stopping at my blog earlier. You are always welcome there.

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  10. hmuxoJune 22, 2011 at 9:16 AM

    Angela!! What a beautiful post..Powerful! Something we don't talk about but "want" to?! I know in my heart that we all meet after death..
    Your painting is absolutely perfect!

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  11. From The HeartJuly 5, 2011 at 4:23 AM

    Beautiful thoughts, and beautiful artwork!
    Blessings on you!
    Shirley

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  12. Ann, Chen Jie Xue 陈洁雪July 8, 2011 at 1:03 AM

    You are a very talented artist and writer.

    When my baby son died, he was very peaceful, unlike his first apnoea when he turned completely black.

    http://annkitsuetchin.blogspot.com/

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  13. AnonymousJuly 10, 2011 at 2:03 PM

    I lost my father recently so thanks!

    Janice Warriner

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  14. suzanneberryJuly 12, 2011 at 10:09 AM

    a very lovely painting and moving post angela!

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  15. Helen H TrachyJuly 23, 2011 at 8:14 AM

    So many people are afraid of talking about death. Your words are very good for the soul, Angela. I like to think death can be just that... peaceful.

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  16. sandyAugust 4, 2011 at 11:29 AM

    What a gorgeous painting. I'll be back later to catch up on both blogs.

    Death - always an interesting subject...

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  17. WangFineArtDecember 1, 2012 at 10:28 PM

    Nice painting! I see a bit Cezanne here.:-)

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